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Member Since: February 26, 2008
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ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him 'down there' but i am cool with some sort of game if anyone has one. thanks so much and i will rate!! :] (link)
You could try and take 'control' of him, some guys like that a lot, hold his hands out of the way, pin him down, don't let him touch you, whisper things in his ear, lean forward to kiss him and then pull away. There are many ways of teasing, including maybe eating food sexily, or dancing - not a lap dance, but just music with a slow beat, that lets you move up against him.

The main points are:
1. Keep things slow. Sometimes even painfully slow, so he wants more.
2. Don't always give him what he wants. Make him wait for it, then he'll enjoy it even more.
3. Keep him guessing. You don't have to go anywhere past 1st, but maybe hint at doing more, make it so he doesn't know where you'll put your hands next, and then his imagination will go wild.

As for games, you could use food items like honey/cream/chocolate and lick/kiss it off each other, although that might be slightly further than you wanted to go.

Good luck, hope I helped :)


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that is really great advice! thank you soo much!! :] just what i was hoping for!




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