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I am a Fun loving person, who has passes though much and is willing to share what advice I have for those who ask.

Someone once said, "all of lifes anwsers are but a question away" and it also has been said, "he who ask not, finds not"

I can't gerentine the best responces but I will the do the best I can.

Sincerly Shadowfox
Member Since: February 15, 2008
Answers: 33
Last Update: November 18, 2008
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ok well i masturbate but i only started when i got a bf. i never even had wanted to or was aroused but then i started thinking more sexually and kissing him and we kinda did dry sex a couple times and talk about doing things on like IM ocassionally and so thats when i started doing it and now i do it rather often! sometimes i wish i wasnt like this and that he and i ddint talk sexually. we are good Christians too so what should i do?? we almost went to 2nd Sunday and i dont think thats bad but i wish we didnt talk about things and do dry sex but now im a sexual person with desires so we say things and do things to keep us happy. what should i do??? thanks so much! (link)
There is a reason why you feel bad, it has nothing to do with brainwashing by reiligon. I'm sorry but I disagree with what has been said about it being natural and ok, it natural to want to have a healthy relationship with a member of the oppist sex, it is far from being what the world is saying it is. the reason I spoke of is (I asume you belive we came from god), God never attend sex to be used as people today are useing it. the reason you feel guilty is that inside each of us is something that wants to do what is right.


If u feel uncomfortable stop, seek help with it,

I hope u find whta you are looking for


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thanks! i really like that i got a different persepctive :)




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