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I'm a perfectionist I guess you could say. But I don't have like OCD and things don't have to be in the right spot..etc. However, on like tests and stuff, I study so hard and when I get the test back to find I got a 93%, I freak, beating myself up and things. The biggest problem is in school. If I don't get a 98-100% I tend to give myself a HARD time. How do I get over this? This happens in sports too. If I do one thing wrong (bad pass, miss a layup, etc.) that's all I think about the whole game, which causes me to mess up more.
Pleeeaassse... any help is welcome! Thanks! (link)
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It's not just because you are perfectionist. It is probably also because you have a lower self esteem. The thing to do is calm down. You have to tell your self that you will do better next time or just lower your expectations a little more just so that when you get higher than that you will be happy. it is a very difficult thing to get over, I have the same issues but not with school. you just need to try and change the way you think but in a good way.
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