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My name is Linda and I'm 16 years old. I consider myself pretty smart and nice (although a little werid) and I'll be glad to answer any questions about anything.
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E-mail: lindamccargo@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Occupation: IB High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: February 17, 2008
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I am the.."advisenator" of all my friends. Now, I odn't know how but all my friends are depressed and are the type of people noone would suggest me to hang out with but I help them mentally a lot. and they tell me all their problems and stress and i help them feel better. But now it feels like it's all added to me and im starting to go down. What can i do? (link)
My dear friend,
Set a limit and take time for yourself. For example, don't take calls after 9:00 p.m. or don't be afraid of telling friends that you are too busy to talk. Meditate. Think to yourself. Maybe you could recommend your friends to professional counselors. If it wears on you too heavily, talk to a counselor yourself and get professional help.
-Linda


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