Gender: Female
Location: Dracut
Age: 15
Member Since: April 28, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: May 11, 2008
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I've been in this relationship with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. I'm 18, he's 22. I'd like to call it serious, but it's the first relationship I've had that I would even consider calling it serious, so I don't know for sure.
My question is this: when, if at all, would be a good time to talk to him about the future? I mean it's pretty obvious we're going to be together a long time. Since we're both in college now, I feel like it would be a good idea to at least have some general outline for the future of our relationship, as in whether we're going to get married or not and basically what our future goals are.
Of course I don't want to put things in stone, but I've wanted to talk about this with him for awhile and I just don't know if it's a good time.
Early in our relationship, like pretty much all couples do, we would talk about our house and kids and stuff, but only in a cute way and I don't consider that as being serious.
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If this guy feels about you the same way you feel about him, than he is probably thinking the same exact way you are, and any time is right to talk about the future. The future is always a day ahead. Just bring it up, it's not like he'll leave you for talking about it right? What do you have to lose?
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I guess I'm just worried I'll scare him away. I've seen so many relationships fall apart because they planned their future too soon.
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