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Q: Got your attention with the title I know haha!
Well I have a few questions.
ONE:
My boyfriend is 16, I'm 14. Not a big age difference and like my mom says it's a matter of maturity and responsibility. Well am I too young to go on a "date"? I've asked before and everyone said no but if so then how can I convince my mom I AM responsible and mature? HELP!
TWO:
T.J. and I have been together three weeks and two days. Every thursday makes a week thats why I know haha! Well I was wondering when should you usually have a first kiss with your boyfriend? I've kissed a guy before but I mean is three weeks too soon? I've known him almost a year in total so we were friends before we started dating.
And if not, who should make the first move? In other words, what's the best way to have a good first kiss? Suggestions appeciated!

uno: i don't think you're too young, but if your mom thinks so, it's gonna be hard to persuade her to realize that you're not too young. just keep arguing with her when the subject comes up. it might help if you do your chores without being told, do your own laundry, etc., it shows responsibility.
dos: well, actually, i think three weeks is a little long now a days to not have a first kiss, but it all depends on where you grow up, so yeahh. it varies from couple to couple who makes the first move. if you think you want to kiss him, then make the first move. if you're too scared, just wait for "the moment" you'll know it when it comes.

good luck.

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Thanks hun!

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