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Q: Yesterday i sat right next to my huge crush...he is a senior 18 and im 15...but anyways, everytime i would say something he would look me dead in the eye...

Then if he were to say something to me, he would touch his leg to mine or swing his torso over towards me to where he hit me on the shoulder...

Then he would tease me kinda...he kept on looking at my paper and said open blonde loud person...(the assignment was things people might not like about you)...but he would giggle and smile at me a lot...

And the whole class he was sitting there with his hand holdin his head up, with his elbow on the desk, but like his arm was touching me the whole time..he was sort of like leaning on me...if you know what im saying..

And i tried to tell my friend sittin on the other side of him, a joke but everytime i would lean back and forth he would lean in the same direction where i couldnt see her...

after you tell me if its flirting, which i did back after he made the first move, can you go into detail with like what he might be trying to tell me or trying to do?? (like my friend said him leaning back and forth mean that he was trying to get in my way so i would see him and pay attention to him, like that you know)

Thank you and sorry its so long... :)
That definitely was flirting. Your friend is right. He was doing these things because he likes you. He wants you to like him back. If you do, keep flirting with him and start some small talk to get to know him better. Then tell him you like him. If you don't want to get to know him better before discussing your feelings for each other, tell him you think he likes you and ask him if its true. Either way, if it is what you want, a relationship could result. If you don't like him but want to continue the flirting, do so without leading him on. Be friendly in response to his flirting but not too friendly, otherwise he will think you like him. I hope I helped.

THANKS A BUNCH!!!!! ha ha :) i really like him.. ha ha

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