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my names amanda im 17 years old & i like to help people out (:

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we've been going out for about 2 months now, and he says he 'loves me'..we're both 16 and in the same grade..i'm the girl. lol

my first - i'm his like 7th gf lol
well, i'm easily manipulated. and i can't help it. i might get the courage to break up with someone and then immediately change my mind..because i'm too nice. and sensitive. my boyfriend has too much control on my feelings. he flirts with my friends - who are all girls...and then comes to me telling me he loves me. i don't mention the whole flirting thing because he denies it anyway. and this upsets me. i feel like he is flirting behind my back and so are my friends - and they're all in it together. as if they don't care. as much as i know he's a jerk - i still REALLY like him and i'm really attatched and i know if i break up with him, i'll be completely heartbroken and devastated.
today, i read over my friend's myspace comments and saw how my boyfriend was telling her about calling my other friends. he calls ALL my girlfriends..and he doesn't call me. he never does.
i don't know why this is. my friends may be more outgoing than me - but he is, after all, my boyfriend - he should show some respect. but it's as if he doesn't care.
whenever my friends come to school - he's so enthusastic about saying hello to them. with me, it's like...oh.. hiii...*gets physical*

please help. i really appreciate any advice at this point. i don't know how many more chances to give him. i'd give him 5 or 6 or 7 - but i know he'll keep on hurting me.

honey, ive been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half, he seems a LOT like the guy youre dating. everything was great for about the first 6 months, and now, he doesnt even care about me! he treats me the way your boyfriend treats you. but its so damn hard to just break up with them because you're soooo attached and "in love"!
you need to get out of this relationship ASAP, i know its hard, but you've only been dating 2 months, i promise you dont love him, and you can find so much better.
its SOO much harder to break with with a boyfriend after you've been dating longer, because you become much more attatched, so if he treats you like crap right now, you need to end it, and even if he comes crawling back, dont take his shit, because right when you get back together, he'll act the same way
tell him how you feel and say i cant take it anymore, and be done with him. it'l be hard, but itll 20x harder if you dont do it now
trust me..

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