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Q: Alright, I wANT to date this kid we call him tj.
The only thing is i dont know how do get to know him better.
The only time i see him is in my MATH class.
i think we would be a couple cuz,we're both shy and im not that good looking and seeing his exes he has low standards. Really low standards.
sry didnt mean to be mean.
Well any advice would help
p.s just rembered he has lunch with me
You should never go out with someone based on who they have dated before you. You get with someone because you care for eachother. If you like him for real reasons like his personality, his morals, common interests...etc, then it would be ok to want to work on starting a relationship. You didn't mention any of these reasons in your question, but if they apply, there is a lot you can do. If you don't understand a problem in math class, you can ask if he would like to help you and exchange numbers or screennames. If you are doing good in math, do not pretend you aren't. In order to have a successful relationship, any relationship, honesty is key from the beginning. Lunch is another opportunity. Try sitting at his table. You could have a friend come along to help break the ice if that would make you feel more comfortable, or you could invite him to sit at your table. If you think you'll be too shy for that, take little steps. On the lunch line, ask him what he's getting. Comment on the food. In math class ask him to borrow a pencil, piece of paper, or his calculator. Small talk will lead to more. Just make sure you are going for this guy for the right reasons. I hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here.

Im actually just brang up his exes to say that he would date me for me cuz thats why he dated his exes

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