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Q: "alison"=me, "jason"=guy who asked me out, "noah"=guy who i used to like and liked me back, "nicole"=girl who helped jason to ask me out. fake names!
say before Valentine's day, nicole asks me, "alison, would you like... (names guysin the class)" i say, "its depends on all of them. idk" she said, "what would happen if someone asked you, would you say yes?" i say "it depends" she bugs me all day asking me this question, then i say "yes! ok! to any of them, jeez" then i go to my class and she goes to her's. she's in the same class as jason. after school, jason come up to me and asks me to go out with him, and i just said for us to talk on aim. and we did but i was nervous so i asked noah if we could all group chat. and yea then we told jason how we like each other. Valentine's day, noah asks if i had chose. and i told noah i was gonna say no and he said okay. then after school i told him i couldn't then handed me a stuffed animal and a card. i didnt accept it but i took the card. i feel bad because he wrote a poem bout him liking me and all. the problem is i just am not ready because i really want to focus on my grades and keep my straight A's but i don't know right now. i want to but i'm too scared to take that step... what should i do? and sorry for the long story...
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Besides being pressured by your friend, you are being pressured by the events of Valentine's Day. You are not ready for committment and you have other priorities right now. Don't ever rush into a relationship. Most relationships that are rushed into do not work. Your feelings for him really have to be there. Relationships take a lot of hard work, effort, sacrifice and time which you want to devote to your schoolwork right now. If you stay friends with him until you are ready, you'll have a much smaller chance of losing him and the both of you getting hurt. It could work out later in the future, when you feel ready. I hope I helped. If you need anything else, I'm here.
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thank you your advice worked
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My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow
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Website: Gender: Female Location: New York Age: 17 Member Since: April 4, 2007 Answers: 116 Last Update: March 26, 2008 Visitors: 10582
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