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okay this guy that i really like, told me a while back that he had a gf but i thought he was sending me mixed signals...well today in class he was saying what he liked in a girl and i was sitting right next to him...(it was the assignment to talk about relationships) and everytime i was supposed to talk, the first time he swung his leg to hit mine...then the other times he moved his torso toward me and smiled and said its your turn...and the fourth time he did it i moved towards him...also i was trying to tell this girl a joke but he kept moving back and forth to where i couldnt see her...and he like would look at me when i was talking and smile...and when he looked at me he looked at my eyes...his pupils looked dialated...and i dont know if he looked at my mouth or not but he was focused on my eyes everytime i spoke...and he had his arm in front of me, and he was touching me the whole time and he kept on calling me blonde and loud..but he would laugh (basically saying it was funny)...
at first i was like oh my what just happened....but then as time drove on i was thinking what could he want me for he has a girlfriend i am probably just turning nothing into something....but he said if i needed anything to talk to him....
any ideas on all of this?? (link)
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This guy is good. There are many guys out there that want to have their cake and eat it too. If he has a girlfriend then he should be focusing his flirtatiousness on her, not you. It sounds as if he is testing the waters. He is trying to see if you will give in to his charm. These guys come across as nice and sweet and charming...but, believe me, they have alterior motives. He is seeing if he can get what he wants out of you. This type of men are called "cheaters", "players", and what not. Don't be fooled by their devilish ways. If he wants to go out with you, then he will ask you. But, I would make darn sure that the relationship between him and his gf is over before going anywhere or doing anthing with this guy. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. If you have any questions regaurding his behavior don't hesitate to ask. I was married to the master or manipulation for nearly eight years...so I can spot them a mile away. Good luck.
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