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Q: 15/f sophmore.

pep rally

so i'm at school and my vie principle wanted me any my 3 other friends to do this relay thing. And each person had to spin around on a bat 10 times around...so after i spun around the bat 10 times..i was REALLY dizzy. and i fell...but i got up and ran across the gym.

so my question is i know on monday people are going to make fun of me..or make jokes about this situation. So how do i act like i don't care ?!!!..what would you do in my situation?!!

please give me all of the advice you can think of.
You showed them a lot about your character by getting back up right away. You weren't going to settle for defeat. You didn't let it show that you were embarrassed. You didn't brush it off slowly either- you finished your task with a run. People will respect you for that. You didn't let them see that it bothered you so when it gets brought up, don't let it show then either. Laugh with them. Remind them that you got right back up. Not getting upset by comments will make it boring for them. It will get old in a few days. Someone else will do something and the attention will no longer be on you. Just hold your head up high and joke back. ~Yup, I'm the girl who fell at the pep rally; but I got right back up~

thanks a bunch

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