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let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]

i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,

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I have a really good guy friend... I'm female and he's 2 years older. We are both in high school. Anyway, I like him a lot... a lot. Actually I love him. 100% sure I love him, even if it is just as friends. Well, the problem is, I really want to go out with him, but he has a girlfriend. He was single when I met him though. He knew I liked him before he started dating her, but we didn't know each other very well then. His girlfriend is kinda mean to him, and I don't think she cares about him as much as she should. Maybe he doesn't tell her as much as he tells me, because if he did, she would have to love him more. So, at first I was happy for him, but then his girlfriend got bitchy towards me and his other friends. I don't think she's good enough for him. Now I'm going crazy seeing him with her and other girls. I want him to like me. I think I could have a chance, but I'm really shy and need to open up more. His girlfriend's good friend told me that she thinks they won't last much longer, and his girlfriend told me she thinks he likes me as more than a friend, but I don't think so. I really like him though and I want a chance with him. What I really need advice with is making him like me more. Ways to get close to him. Any advice you have would be good with this situation. I love him and everything he says he wants in a relationship I want to. Now don't forget I'm already really good friends with him. We hang out, and he comes to my house a lot. But I really want to get closer to him and let him know that I feel as strongly as I do. Another thing is, I always want to say "I love you" when he's about to leave or something, but I'm afraid he'll think it's weird or take it the wrong way, I mean, me and my friends do say that to each other, but would it be weird with him? Any advice on that would be helpful too. And, I always want to hug him, and sometimes he really needs a hug, but I think that might be weird for him too. Anyways to approach that? Thanks for any advice you give. Sorry it's long. (link)
mmkay. don't ask me how to get him to like you, just be you. i mean
he seems like he likes you already, just talk to him more, maybe about more personal things. just. show him that you care, be there for him. just
be you...


about the iloveyou thing.
ummmm
just
time it right.
if he's sad or happy tell him then
but if he's mad, that might not be such a good time. just be there
he'll come around [[if he doesnt already love youuu

xoxo


Rating: 5
Thanks. That was good advice and it made me happy. :)




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