let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]
i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,
E-mail: randomconfusionx@yahoo.com
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16/f. 15/m. my first boyfriend's getting to be REALLY kinky...and it's okay, to some extent. but i've just had enough.
i have a kind of ..a fear of male genitalia..its not a fear..more like a disgust [because of events that have happened previously..to me ..when i was young] and..my bf (lets call him A)
well, A showed me his penis. and i wasn't exactly turned on or anything. we're much too young. and whenever i reject looking at it, or touching it or anything, he gets PISSED at me. and he goes...so you have peniphobia now? WTF?
he ALWAYS finds something wrong with the way i act-how i'm disgusted by certain crude..sexual acts - IN PUBLIC.. WHO touches themselves in public? Please tell me..? Am I insane or -what..?
He takes pictures of his penis and gets upset when I refuse to see it. He doesn't respect my irrational fear...no matter how stupid it is.
Worst of all, he forces some acts on me...he grabs me by the crotch and forcefully grabs my boobs. I liked the making out stage...But it's just getting too retarded now. He's way too horny. And I tell him I love him..because I do. But I can't be with him anymore. I feel like he only uses me for my body. That's all he wants.
Can somebody PLEASE tell me ..whether or not this relationship could be worth saving? Or..?
There's also no intellectual attraction - We have nothing to talk about. It's all physical. And I don't feel like I can tell him anything.
I have no experience with boyfriends prior to this one. So I don't know what to do. Any help would be GREATLYYY appreciated. (link)
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mmkay.
i think you should leave his sorry ass.
i mean. if he only loves you for your body. then he doesn't care about you as much as you care about him.
i mean, if he really cared. he'd accept your fear, and wait until you were ready. rather than try to force you do things. i think you deserve better. guys can be better than that. trust me. the guy im going out with cares alot. and i was cutting. and he did everything he could to get me to stop. i mean, he cares. i think you should just stay friends with some people, and see where that leads. but i think you should just leave the guy. he doesn't deserve you if he only wants you sexually..
hope i helped
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aim screen name: randomconfusionx
xoxo
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thank you so much. you really made me believe that there are better guys out there...this makes me all the more confident to break up with him. because that's all he cares about - sex. there's no basis in our relationship - nothing but touching. thanks so muchh :]
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