My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
E-mail: lacey.simmons8@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston,TX
Age: 22
AIM: LACEY LiKE WOAHH
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My dad is leaving next year. My parents are divorcing. My mom doesn't even have a job so I don't even know what we're going to do. My dad is always yelling. My mom's always blaming me for everything. My dad hates me & I don't even know why. My parents are always talking about how smart my brother is & why can't I be like him. I get grounded if I don't make A's in every subject like my brother. My cousin is in the hospital. My grandfather has cancer & won't be living much longer. I can't talk to anyone but three of my close friends about anything, but I hardly see them anymore. Two of my best friends got separated from me because they changed the school districts. Another one of my best friends just got transferred to another school starting Monday. Two more of my best friends go to my school, but I never see them, so it's pointless. Another one of my best friends...my parents won't even let me hang out with. I ended up breaking off the friendship with five of my close friends last year because they started drinking & changing & all they do is spread rumors about me & gossip/talk about me now when I see them. God, I can't take all of this. How can I deal with everything that's going on? (link)
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There's alot going on and alot of take in, but things happen for a reason. You need to find out who means the most to you and realize who are true to you and stay close to them no matter what because when have a good friend.. you probaly won't find another friend like that to talk to. Learn to accept your surrounding because you can't do much about your parents. They choose what's best for them and you just accept it. Spend more time with your grandfather because you never know when he won't come back. Accept the fact that God will choose when he will pass away. He will watch upon you and be in a better place. and enjoy your life like your suppose to. Don't look at everything in a negative way. For you have alot of good things in store for you in the future. Your parents have high expectations for you so you won't slack off. They know what your capable of and they don't want you to start slacking off now. They are leading you into the right direction because they won't have much control of you after you leave for college and your all by yourself trying to make good decisions for yourself. Just soak in everything and move forward. Don't look back and good luck. Hope I helped. :]
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