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Hi My name is Amanda, I'm 21 years old and I love giving advice! Feel free to ask me anything, but don't ask me something you don't want a honest answer to I'm very straight forward and will tell you how it is because sometimes a good answer may not be something you wanna hear.
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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Age: 21
Member Since: January 19, 2008
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Last Update: April 14, 2008
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I'm 14/f and recently my cousin was trying to get me to go out with this dude. And frankly, he doesn't seem to interest me at all. So this somehow ended up with me having until Thursday to choose whether or not to go with him. I was thinking of trying to get a person who I actually like during this time. Which means I need some way to socialize more. Or another way to get out of it is breaking it to the dude that I don't like him, and I have no idea how to do that without sounding like a...bitch. lol. So which should I do? Or is there another alternative? And whatever I do, is there any advice on how to make it happen with a positive outcome?
You just need to be honest with him just be like look you seem like a nice guy but i'm not interested in you. Its up to him to take it how he wants to if he takes it the wrong way thats his problem its not your fault. Don't go out with him just to please him because thats making yourself unhappy he is just going to have to acept the facts and leave it at that. Sometimes to get a positive outcome you have to be a bitch and if people don't like it then thats their problem. Good luck
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Thank you! I look at the situation differently now!
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