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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

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Theres this boy... he lives like 10,000 miles away from me. So i only see him during winter break. Actually, i just met him last year. But im going to see him again this year.

Hes the cutest boy ive ever met! And hes really nice. Im kinda good friends with his sister. We hang out during break and text somtimes but thats pretty much it.

One night during break we spent the whole time cuddling kinda. And ive never done that with any1 before and it was so sweet!

Hes in high school, and i start next year. We would never see eachother exept on break and maybe during the summertime.

Anyway, my question is... is the difference too much to flirt with him again this year? I was in 7th last year, and he was in 10th but i didnt notice what a hugee difference that was until now. And since im so much younger, any chance he likes me?
Im not talking about dating or anything. But just flirting.
Am i gonna look like a little kid flirting with him?

idk what goes on in an 11th grade boys mind! Please help

He probably doesn't like you, but there's always a chance. Just think about the age difference. You might have liked older guys, but how many significantly younger guys have you liked?

Unless he doesn't flirt at all, you won't look like a kid. Last year, the age difference was pretty big too, but he still flirted. If he doesn't flirt back, then you might look immature. But chances are, he will. So don't stop.

If he liked cuddling with you, then he's probably not the kind of guy who would pressure you into anything, or even want it as much as a lot of other guys. Plus, an 11th grade guy might be having sex, but he's probably not going to expect it, or even want it, from a middle schooler. Most guys would feel really wierd doing anything really sexual with someone so much younger.
He might have changed, but you'd probably have noticed since he texts you. You can flirt again, but if it feels wierd or like he wants something you're not ready for, stop. Trust your gut.

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(Rating: 5) Amazing advice!! Haha sounds like u kno from lotsa experience ;)

Thanx alot
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