Well I'm a guy and I've been referred to as the High School Hitch by some of my classmates. I'm 16 years old. Ask me anything about your relationships or problems and I will do my best to answer them to the best of my ability.
E-mail: rangerrod1231@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: houston
Age: 16
Member Since: January 17, 2008
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Last Update: January 19, 2008
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okay so there is this guy, he is like a skater and stuff. so my friend is like BEST FRIENDS with him. they always are hanging out and i always hang out with her so once and awhile we all hang out. by the way his name is david. so i am pretty shy, especially around guys. like, im really shy right when i get to no someone, then after awhile i am like the most outgoing person in the world, i am so crazy i do everything and you can't get me to shut up. i no there is probably alot of questions like this, but i really need help. so my friend that is his best friend is talking to him abouot me, and she knows that if i opened up to him, he would like be in love with me. like we have the same exact personalitys, once i open up. i just can't seem to do that though, it's so hard, especially with guys! so, basically my question is, i need to no how to get myself to not be so nervous and just chill out and be myself, and once i do that, i need good ways to flirt with him. thank you!!! (link)
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Well if youre going thru a friend to get to a guy and your personalities are as similar as you say they are then you need to cut out the middle man and try talking to him over the internet, like maybe myspace, msn, or AIM. Then you can slowly graduate to phone calls and talking in person. If this guy makes you feel like this, then chances are you make him feel the same way. He's probably nervous too. But if he's not then try those methods that i mentioned earlier.
Cliche Time: Just be yourself
Try this too: Try talking to him like he is one of your girlfriends, minus the girl "topics".
Hope that helps...
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