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Q: Lets just sum it up

-dated Simon for 22 months
-broke up due to immaturity, and fighting (Jan. 07')
-got a new bf for 6 months, in that 6 months that Simon said he still loved
-Broke up with bf 5 months later
-Start to try and work things with Simon
-Things were great, no fighting, matured alot

We've been working things out for 4 1/2 months now and he still hasn't asked me out, and I've asked why and he just says because of college (didnt this run through his head before he confessed him still loving me (we've also dated while he's in college)) and he just says when he comes back home (in may) but I dont think I want to wait around that long, it seems like we're dating now but without the title and i want the bf/gf title

I don't want to be annoying but I can't wait forever sense I've been waiting sense the day we broke up..

Does he really love you? You broke up with your new boyfriend because he said he still loves you. That is what he wanted- for you not to be with that guy so you can work things out. Almost five months have gone by and he is using the school excuse!? If he really loved you and wanted things to truly work out, he wouldn't let nothing get in the way of getting to be with you again. You need to talk to him. Ask him if he is being serious. Tell him you don't want to wait forever and that he needs to stop playing with your emotions.

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