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I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.

What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.

It's actually starting to hurt our relationship and I really don't want to lose him.

You have to find other things to do with friends that will help you cope with being without him. I know it doesn't seem like it but the time apart is healthy. You don't want your life to completely revolve around your relationship. You have to work on being a stronger person on your own. He will respect you more if you do this! Good Luck!

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(Rating: 5) See, I forgot to mention, I'm fine when he's not around, it's just the moment he leaves and the couple of minutes around that

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