I am just a girl. I am no special person. My friends have always asked me for advice, I have always been pretty good at giving it. I am a Christian. Sometimes that influences my advice, sometimes it doesn't. My mother has always told me I should work for a teen help hotline. I love helping people, it makes me feel like I'm useful.
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my bf and i last night talked about what we daydream and stuff not exactly text sex/sex put like him taking off my shirt and where i would touch his back and chest and stuff like that. we both really liked it and got turned on and thought it was sexy but the thing is we are really good Christians and we are wondering if it was wrong that we did that. can anyone tell me what they consider this? its not sex but is it 'unholy' i think it might have been kinda bad but i still really liked it. what should i do?? thanks so much :] (link)
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Your carnal (fleshly) side will, of course, enjoy these things. It's normal to have gotten turned on by them, though. The fact that you are even questioning whether it was right or not should tell you that your spiritual side is trying to intervene. Any amount of impurity is wrong and can easily lead to other things. If you are thinking it, it will make things more likey to happen. Also, a sin can be a sin, even in your mind. Thoughts like this are lusty and dangerous. Why play with fire, when you can remain entirely pure and make resisting the temptaion easier. Just tell your boyfriend that you care about him and are attracted to him, but that you are not comfortable discussing those things because of the temptation it causes. If he is as good of a Christian as you say, then he should understand and respect that decision. If you have any more questions, let me know....I have just gone through a very similar situation myself, I know it can be very tough.
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thanks sooo much! you give great advice! :]
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