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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other. andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends. so my ? is iwant to hear what pple think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday. thank you so much and i really appreciate it :]
Okay, I can see why you are so upset about this. It is a hard decision and you probably don't really want to think about it. Serious relationships are hard to deal with and they can be very difficult. I'm in a serious relationship now too; 8 months today actually. If I was in your situation I would just tell him that I find it difficult to continue what we have but that I would never forget it or lose it in my heart. You should tell him the same thing. Tell him you both have the chance to start fresh with a new beginning and you never know, this could be a great thing for you two. I get told this all the time and I do believe it; you shouldn't be held down by one guy all through school. You need to experience different one's and know what is out there. Find out your style and types; see what else you could have. I love my bf too with all my heart and I wouldn't want to let go of him but sometimes I think that there are other guys there who are interested in me and giving them a chance wouldn't be so bad. You can find out what your exact taste is and what you REALLY like. Mix up the flavors and find your specialty.
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(Rating: 5) thanks! that is GREAT advice :]