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I'm Allie :)

I love lacrosse, field hockey, running, talking, boys, summer, and Boston.

I'm very forward. If you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question.

I'll do my best. =P

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I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...

I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!

I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of father? I don't know what to do! Why can't I just stop thinking and worrying about him!?

What should I do? Have you ever felt like you had to protect someone that you've never met?

Please Help!
Thanks in advance.

-Andy

ygs was right, you can't just assume that everyone wants your help. Try talking to him, try to become friends. It's nice that you feel the need to help him; most guys your age are much less altruistic.
I honestly have no idea why you can't stop worrying about him, but I think if you become friends with him, you'll know more about him. And when you know more about him, you'll be able to judge whether he has unsolved issues or not.
I've never felt the need to protect someone I've never met, but that's not really my personality. It seems to be in yours, which I think is nice. =]

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