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k so, i have been really good friends with this guy since the end of last school year and we have liked eachother on and off through out this time but we have never dated. but recently i told him that i like him. and he told me that he liked me too but didnt want a girlfriend and he told me he felt like a jerk for saying it but he said that he didnt want me to wait around for him because our friendship wont turn into a relationship. and, i mean i really like him. more than ive ever liked anyone and i feel that if we acctually gave eachother a chance we could have something really good and special. theres just times where hes kind of left out and i go over to him and sit with him. and he does the same for me. i don't get it though. if he likes me enough why wont he try us out. but, he said he liked me. but what i dont get is if you like someone enough you would date them. so is he lying or telling me the truth. and lately he hasnt been talking to me in school or on the computer like he usually does. and to tell you the truth, im crushed.i know its not that big of a deal. but, i just really feel as if we would be good for eachither; anytime we talked or hungout we got along really well and the conversation wasnt delayed or anything and hes just a really good person to talk to. he listens and helps me with anything i need.
oh, and sorry that this is soo long.

i don't really have a question but like, i need advice. what do i do how do i found out if hes lying and i just don't know. is there anything i can do to get him to change his mind? :p anything will help.

Okii you said that you dont think people could like some1 but not want to go out with them. They could :) Maybe he just wants abot ov tome to himself without having to worry about keeping a relationship going. He might feel up to having a gf just yet. I think you should give it a few weeks and then give it another try maybe. For now though just be a good friend to him :) Good Luck x x

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(Rating: 5) thanks, but he told me not to wait around for him. :/
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