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Q: Ok well i am 19 years old and i have never been in a relationship. I havn;t been in a relationship because i am a little self concious about myself and i get extremely nervous and shy around guys and i feel i have nothing to say. I really want to be in a relationship too which is the worst part. any ideas on how i can become less shy and nervous??

and another question is do you think a guy will think i am a loser because i have never been in a relationship and obviously never had sex or madeout with a guy??
plz help:S
Start by hanging out in a group of girls and guys. It would be easier to talk when you are not relied upon to start any conversations and when all the attention won't be on you. As for guys thinking you are a loser, I would think they would appreciate your innocence, that your not a slut, and that you do things according to when your ready- not based on what everyone else seems to be doing. You will probly be respected.

thanks:)

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