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Ok well i am 19 years old and i have never been in a relationship. I havn;t been in a relationship because i am a little self concious about myself and i get extremely nervous and shy around guys and i feel i have nothing to say. I really want to be in a relationship too which is the worst part. any ideas on how i can become less shy and nervous??

and another question is do you think a guy will think i am a loser because i have never been in a relationship and obviously never had sex or madeout with a guy??
plz help:S

Firstly, If the guy is worhty of going out with he will not think you are a loser and he will understand.

Also, don't worry about not having been in a relationship...many people are shy around the opposite sex. It takes time to get to know someone and then you will soon feel comfortable around them. It would be easier if you found someone who had the same interests etc. and then you would have some stuff to talk about :)Also dont think to much about you being shy or nervous because then you will be shy! If you go out feeling ok .. conversation might just flow :) Also if he starts the conversation first then that might give you ideas on things to talk about. Good Luck Babe x

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