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Ok I've hung out with my older brother's friends for awhile now (he is 25 and his friends range from 21 - 28 i think). Well, I've liked one of them for a couple years now, and they had a new years eve party last night. I ended up staying there, and me and this guy that I've liked slept on the couch together (nothing happened though, just cuddling). After we all left, he sent me a message on facebook and said he had a good time chillin with me and gave me his number. So I gave him mine, and we're texting now. He wants to take me to a movie sometime, and I'm really excited. But the problems are 1) he's 24 and 2) my brother doesn't really like him anymore (some girl issue they had like a year ago). I really want to see where things go with this guy, but my brother would kill me if he knew. He's already told me I shouldn't go out with him and all. Plus, my mom doens't think it's a good idea, cause it might mess up my relationship with my brother. I'm really stuck on this. I really like this guy, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother. :/ Help?? (link)
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i agree with the person before me family before friends but i don;t think you should let someone ruin a relationship for you. You like the guy and he seems to like you. you should try talking to your brother about it saying you want to try it with him and he should try and be supportive about it. even if the brother knows things about him that you don't, it should be for you to decide whether you like those things or not and let you to experience those things for yourself. and what you won't go out with a guy everytime your brother doesn't like him? it's for you to make that choice. and him being 24 is not a big deal. Its not really a big age difference. So yes usually it is family first but there are some limits.
hope i helped good luck:)
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