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Gender: Female
Occupation: teachers assistant
Member Since: September 25, 2007
Answers: 44
Last Update: June 27, 2008
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Ok. So i'm not a virgin, but my boyfriend is, and I want to have sex with him and all, but I don't know how to start off. Like I don't want to have to tell him what to do ("ok, take your pants off", "Come here," "do this do that") you know?
So is there anything I can do to make him want to be in control. We talk about it and stuff and he tells me all that he WANTS to do, but it never happens. Does that mean he's scared of me? I like him and all and think hes overly sexy but he's not that experienced and stuff. I don't know how to get him to warm up to anything either. I've always gone out with more experienced guys.

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it sounds like he really wants to do stuff with you but hes afraid that he wont be up to your standards all guys are like this just reassure him when he is doin little things then move his hands on you to encourage him that your ready

he should get the hint and start doing things he wants to do to you and i guess if not you take the lead for this one time and next time it will be more comfortable and fimilliar to him and hell take the lead

well good luck i hope everything works out


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