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I'm Allie :)

I love lacrosse, field hockey, running, talking, boys, summer, and Boston.

I'm very forward. If you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question.

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ok this is probably the dumbest question you'll ever come across but i can't help wondering and i am sure other women have been wondering too...

so i watched "p.s: i love you" right.... and me and my gals fell head over heals for the dead husband dude and were arguing whether he's just a conjured ideal fantasy or if men like that truly exist. not to sound like a pessimist... all the men in my family are chauvinistic bastards who believe that if their girlfriends or wives or whatever get raped they'll be too disgusted to touch her again... (i know boohoo for me lol) and most of the men i know if not all have cheated in some way or another (even without actually committing the dead) on their lovers.. so thats something i am convinced, or even more so, believe is an unchangeable fact about the nature of men... but hey it doesn't necessarily mean they are bad or that i am a man hater..... anyway i know not all men are like my family men coz my boyfriends are sweet hearts... but the latter is true (about the cheating)....thing is i am not convinced that perfection exist and frankly that guy was perfect in every way... i mean even his flaws make him perfect. so i argued for fantasy...
a friend of mine told me something that i feel too uncomfortable to say again that made me think of the possibilities .... do men like jerry exist???? seriously... what man still loves a women who throws shoes at his face and yells at him every single minute of their presence together?

please give me ammo to slap her back to earth!

I love this question.
I've wondered about it practically my whole life, and I think I have finally come up with a reasonable answer:
Yes, men like Gerry exist, though they are very rare to come by.
However, perfection does not exist. Gerry was not perfect; he may have seemed as though he was, but he was not. No one is perfect, so your friend was right in that aspect.
Honestly, when you find the right guy, you will think even his flaws are perfect for you.

=P

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(Rating: 5) thanx! lol you mean i was right about the no one is perfect thing... coz honestly... they are only so when you "fit" as the other columnist pointed out! thanks you guys... this sorted it out :)))
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