First of all, I'm a girl and my friend is a guy. We're both in high school. I like him, and he knows it, but we are still really good friends, even though it did hold us down for a while. Anyway, there are several things I need help on. 1 is that he has a girlfriend, which he says he loves, but he is always depressed and afraid of being hurt, and thinks she doesn't care enough about him, which might be true, but he's always telling me about how sad he is, and I care about him a lot, but I don't know how to help him. I want him to feel better. I want to be there for him when he needs me. 2 is that I really like him. A lot. I wish there was away I could show him that I care more than he'll ever know, and I'm the one he needs. When he describes what he wants, it's what I want too, but he likes this other girl. I was fine with them being together at first, because he was happy and she was becoming my friend, but then she became bitchy to me and he was always depressed. I need advice. Thanks.
Tell him you are worried about him and ask if you can help. I know being there is at ttimes helpful but explain the way he was before and how he is since. You may not get the guy for awhile if at all but you may get the chance to eventually tell him how you really feel, maybe by then he will be open enough to consider it or he may decide that you are what he wants. GOOD LUCK to you and wish you and him the best.
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Thanks. I will try to talk to him.
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