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okay, so this may end up being a tad bit long, but bear with me pleasee :]

ok, so there is this kid at school, and i dont exactly "like him" pursay, but i think i might be starting to.

i dont really have any experience in relationships, but im good with helping friends out and crap. so i really need some help in seeing if this kid likes me or not. i mean i asked my friends, but they usually just assume the best to make me feel better, so it helps to have someones point of view that i dont know.

ok well heres the story,theres this kid, lets call him billy. so me and billy really never talked before, but we knew of each other, you know what i mean? well he was going out with a friend of mine, whos dating him right after billy and her best friend broke up, so i hope you get that shes dating her best friends ex, which is billy. so they were going out and stuff for a while, and me and him started talking.

well eventually they broke up, they didnt last too long. and we kept talking. well we have lunch together, and i sit with his ex at lunch. so we all have lunch together and i walk with billy after study hall on the way too lunch.

well a few days ago, after this school thing, he ended up being behind me, and we started talking. then we were going through a busy hallway and he sort of grabbed me by the hips and led me through. im not sure if thats flirting or what?

we always see each other in the hallway and he stops to talk to me. at another school function, we were talking for a while, and he wanted to give me a hug, i told him i had to go so he said just a really quick hug, and i was like okayy whatever. so he grabbed me and squeezed me really tight and wouldnt let go. it felt really good for some reason, like i wanted it to happen. it felt really nice because ive been distancing myself from guys for a while.

i cant tell if he likes me or not. like i walk down the hallway and see him, but i look out of the corner of my eye at him, you know like not looking at him but seeing him. well i always see him see me, no matter what and he always playfully punches me. its really cute and stuff, but im not sure if he does this with every girl.

so i need some help, do you think he likes me? and do you think his ex/my friend would be really mad at me if i dated him? andd i need something more to talk about with him, now that i think he likes me i starve for words haha.

hes also kind of a player. hes good to his girlfriend when hes dating them, but when they break on he moves on really fast. is that bad?

thanks so much to whoever read that and actually cared :]

It sounds like he likes you! The thing that makes me think he does is the whole hug thing. He sounds cute.
Talk to your friend about dating him if it gets to that point. I don't think she'd mind since they didn't date for very long at all. I know my friends would be at least somewhat cool with it. If you really like him and she's a good enough friend, she'll understand.
It is kinda bad that he moves on so quickly from girls. That might mean that he's just looking for anyone to occupy his time. That might be bad. Or maybe it's not like that. If you genuinely like each other and you started dating, I'm sure he wouldn't move on that that fast. So don't really worry about that.
I can't help you with what to say because I have the same problem. It's always different once feelings are involved. The only advice I can give you on that is to try to make the convos longer. If he brings something up, don't answer with "yes" and "no"s. Elaborate.
I hope things work out for you! You guys sound like you'd make a cute couple.

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