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i'm 15, my bf is 14.
my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls.
i tried to ignore it for a while, but i just couldn't ignore it anymore.
so i told him that it annoyed me when he flirted with other girls, and especially in front of me. he said that he doesn't really think he is flirting with them, he just thinks he is being nice, or friendly or something.
i said that's ok but just don't go too far, you know.
the other day he told me he used to have crush on one of my friends.
she is pretty and popular and really nice. everyone else thinks this too, and i don't like that he used to like her.
this is because he still flirts with her, even when i am around.
he says that he doesn't like her anymore, but i just can't think that.
i think that because he always flirts with everyone else, that he doesn't really like me. he says that i am beautiful and that he loves me so much, but it doesn't feel like that....
i love him too, but sometimes it's just so frustrating...
can someone please help me how to deal with this (link)
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okay for one, you should be happy that at least hes flirting with other gurls in front of you instead of behind your back.
me personally, i consider a boyfriend flirting with other girls, CHEATING!. that bothers me so much.. gurl, youre 15 years old. when i was 15, i was dating 17 and older guys. i dont like lil boys and i dont like immature guys. so if i were you id break up with your boyfriend and try for someone thats older than you and more mature.
if youre wanting to stay with your boyfriend, then the trick to getting him to stop flirting, is to flirt with other guys, and not be so obsessed with him.(not saying that you are). just if you want him to want YOU more, then pay less attention to him. let him call you. let him text you. let him want to be with you.. you have to play the game. dress cute when youre around him and others. idk what else to tell you. hope everything works out!
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