Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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Brandi_S
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In school, I'm kind of loserish.
I mean, there are deff people who are huger losers than me, no question.
But I'm def not cool. Like, I've never been to a party or anything(with people from my school).
Outside of school, I'm cool. Like, at camp I'm at least top five most popular girls. I've drank and smoked, just a tiny bit, with people from camp. Most of them live in towns less than half an hour away. I've hooked up with hot guys, and I've turned down a lot of kinda-cute ones. So basically, I'm just a loser in school.
I don't want to sound conceited or anything but I know I'm pretty. I'm not fat, I'm skinny. I dress well.
I thinkkk the reason I am at school is b/c of my friends. I was new in middle school, and I already knew a few people there. They were kinda losers, but I stuck with them. I feel like if I hadn't, I'd have made different friends. I def had opportunities to. Now, I really don't like them too much. They're kinda annoying and suckish friends. Like, I can't tell them anything.
I want a new group of friends. I want to be popular because (a) thats just def better, i mean cuter guys better social life, you know. and (b) the other cliques who aren't popular suck. Like there really isnt anyone else who id ever want to be friends with.
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If the friends you have at school now are not good to you, then don't hang around them. Just make sure it's on the basis that they are not good friends and not because they are not on the social level you want them to be.
Make sure you judge the popular kids on the people they are and not the fact that they are popular. If not you will find yourself being someone you don't want to be.
Either way, I guess just try making new friends. I'm sure if you start making good friends in your classes, they will be more inviting than just if you randomly go up to them.
Good luck.
Teacup
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thank you so much.
"Make sure you judge the popular kids on the people they are and not the fact that they are popular."
just so you know, that is a big part of it. i know people from the other cliques around me, and i really just don't want to be friends with them. theyre dull, and a good amount are incredibly annoying. so its not even that i want to be popular, but its just a whole other group of people for me to meet. maybe theres someone up there that i could actually like, you know?
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