My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
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16/f okay so my bf smokes alot. just going to get that out there right now. weed and cigs. and at times it seems that he would rather do that then be with me. like sometimes he wont come to school because he would rather go do that. and me and him dont hang out alot outside of school so its like if he is dropping school he is dropping me.... anyways there is 2 things i can do. i can tell him we need a break and that i still like him but he needs to sort out his priorities or i can stay with him and believe he will straighten up like he says he will.he says he is going to start coming back to school and be a better bf which he has lately.... i just need to know what the right thing to do is. i mean when he is with me he makes me so happy and i cant stop smiling but he does hurt me too :( so somebody please help me. i want the most effective way and if he doesnt want to be helped and keeps it up i will break up with him and move on. but fully breaking up with him right now isnt an option, he means too much and i want him to knoe i am here for him. so please help me if you can and thanks in advance (link)
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You need to talk to him, seriously. If he can't keep up a good relationship then why stay in it? I think there should be some limits and some kind of priority schedule. You need to try and keep him to realize there are more important things to do than just smoke. It's a bad habit and if you get him to stop , that would be even more better. Honestly, smoking will get you no where except addition and in debt because you end up wasting so much money on it. I know they say they will change and start making better decisions, but that's only saying it. You can't trust just words, they don't mean to, but they end up just breaking their promises and betraying you. Alot of people get hurt trying to fix a relationship, but really they should have just left it because people can't always change...even if they say they were. Good luck and hope I helped.
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