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i am sick of hearing the word gay being tossed around so carelessly. "that song is so gay!" how does that make ANY sense? does that song like other songs of the same gender? am i missing something here..?

i want people to know that i am gay and i find it very offensive to hear people use gay instead of stupid. i am gay. does that make me stupid?

if you are jewish and someone said "that movie is so jewish", you would get offended because jewish does not mean stupid. this is the same exact scenario: a minority being discriminated.

so why do people do this, and how do i get them to stop? =(

omg, i know exactly what you mean!
i'm straight but it still bothers me when people say it. you wouldn't say thats so straight.

anyways, what i did was tell people how dumb they sounded and i basically didn't want to hear it. none of my friends say it anymore except for once in a blue moon.

let people know it bothers youu.
hope i helped!

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