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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!

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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.

I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.

He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..

I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.

Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(

So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.

How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..

ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.

Thanks!
-AJ

PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.

uhmm well.
i don't think that you 'like' him, i just think that you admire him. there is always a possibility that you look up to this guy as a role model, perhaps.

or

there is always a slight chance that your a bisexual, but only you can decide that. i think you might have a slight crush on him because you described his eyes as "gorgeous".

and

for him to open up about his personal life you have to open up about yours first.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! I'll strongly think about it... but I don't know... lol, but thanks.
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