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Okay so I had this boyfriend, Adam. He cheated on me. I'm really angry at him, but I'm going to forgive him eventually; it's just going to take time. Now there's this really nice guy I just hung out with recently, Ryan, who I kind of like, and I'm not really sure if he likes me. But, one of my best friends likes Ryan, too. Now, I'm not sure what to do. Adam is aware I like Ryan, my friend knows I like Ryan, but Ryan doesn't know I like him. Part of me thinks that I shouldn't even be be trusting Adam; what he did was so stupid and hypocritical and just really hurt. But I don't even know if Ryan likes me, and my other friend really likes him, so maybe this whole thing with Ryan will just mess up my possible second chance with Adam AND my friendship. Would I be a horrible friend if I were to ever date Ryan? (which is totally hypothetical because it just seems like he likes me, I don't actually know) I don't know what to do... advice? (link)
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Ok well first Adam he really needs a realty check he does not deserve a second chance if he cheated on you once then he will do it again i help teens with getting over people that have hurt them by cheating on them and i really dont like it and if your friend is really truely your friend she will understand that you like him and is going to try there is a old saying that goes love is in only in the heart of the beloved which means love will only be with you if you choose to chase it down and grab it even if it takes alittle sacrifice. I really understand how you feel after he cheated on you i was cheated on alot of the time but you know i was about to give up and something told me not to give up and a week later i waited and suddenly i got a call from one of my family friends and she asks me if i would like to go to the mall and movies with her and her cousin which i didnt even know she had and i knew her my whole life and didnt meet her cousin until then and now her cousin is now my fiance and we are so in love and i guess you probaly didnt want to hear all of that but all im saying is dont guide your heart let it guide you and if you need any more advice just ask.
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