heyehy i'm ashlee
most people call me ashlee but i personally like ash. i'm 14 and i live in connecticut, i have the most amazing friends ever. i'm not perfect one bit, i have many things about me people don't know, i have anxiety&&depression i was diagnosed with my anxiety when i was about 7 but i had it since 5. my depression was last year and it was so scary, i love to help people with any type of problem they may have. back in 1st grade my best friend and i actually had a fix fight club, when two people were fighting we would help them sort it out haha
E-mail: omgitsashlee3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: connecticut
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Hi I would be greatful if anyone can help with any ideas on how to deal with nerves and shyness. I currently have alot of things in my life where i need to keep control of my nerves.
I am soon taking my driving test, A levels and a new job as a waitress but I am finding my nerves are getting in the way, I start shaking, going bright red and I carnt speak properly. A few times I have failed a few exams because my nerves got the better of me.
I would be greatful for any help. Thank you. (link)
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okay well i have delt with diagnosed anxiety since i was 5 and i can relate to how you feel. its taken me until now to figure out what i needed to do. everyone has something to calm their nerves but they just need to find out what it is, my friend downloaded music and bought a cd of soothing sounds like rain and birds etc... and she listens to that. for me, i need to think of something else, for example, if i am thinking about a big test or something and i hear myself saying oh your gonna fail and do really bad and you will fail the term blah blah blah, i need to like repeat what is being said around me, if im in school and the teachger is talking, i will say whatever she is sayign in my head, i find it helpful for myself. if none of that works try going to a psycologist, i had to go and now im on medicine and it helps a lot.
if you need anything else just message me
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