for along time i decided that i wanted to wait until marraige. it really bothered and confused me that so many of my friends and people i knew were having sex so young, with people they werent really in love with. also, the whole pregnancy thing freaked me out. i was with my current boyfriend for almost a year before we started talking about it. when he first mentioned it i told him i definitely wasnt ready.. and he waited. about two months later, he asked again. he said he didnt want to pressure me because he loved me. he just wanted to know ehy i didnt want to. i explained that i didnt feel old enough, and i didnt think that it was necessary at the time. i waited until about a month later. i told him i was completely ready.
i was really nervous, but i never thought i was making the wrong decision. i think that because i waited until i was completely ready, i didnt regret it. i was completely in love, and still am when it happened. its all about feeling comfortable, and wanting to be closer to the person you are with. whether you believe it or not, sex definitely brings people alot closer together. afterwards, it was like i loved him so much more than i had before. you just need to be sure that you are sticking to your own beliefs and personal values before you decide to take the step. it really is a big step, and you can never go back.

i hope this helped :)

Thank you so much! I decided to wait until marriage.

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