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My neice is mentally retarded. We just found out. My sister was hysterical. My mom was crying. My dad was very mad/sad. I felt nothing. Is this wrong? I love my neice and care about her, but i don't care if shes retarded. I'll still love her the same. I feel bad for the troubles she will have to go through but i'm not really sad. Also i am kinda pissed about how everyone else is so pissed off. Is this good or bad and why am i feeling this way? (link)
No it is not wrong to feel nothing. Maybe you know that you can't help it. There's nothing you can do about it. It's not that you don't care (as you quoted you care about her) but it's that u can't do anything about it! You should still love her the same, as she hasn't changed a bit! (If she was mentally distorted before).

Hope i helped a lot, and all the best for your family!

Kronix


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