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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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I have a guy friend who for the last 3 days has called me every night and we have talked on the phone for hours. I’m house sitting at the moment and he knows that I’m by myself. He tells me that he calls and talks to me cause he doesn’t want me to be bored or alone. I do have a problem though. He is engaged, but he hardly ever sees her, and when they talk on the phone it’s only for like 15 minutes. Just the other night I was at his house and his fiancé called. I decided to leave like 5 minutes after she called, so I could head over to the house I’m watching. It’s like a 3 minute drive and he called me before I even got there. So that means he hung up with his fiancé and immediately called me, and we were on the phone for three hours. He called me tonight also, and we were on the phone for another 2 and a half hours. That would make this day number four. Friday night he asked me to go to midnight mayhem with him, but we were going to meet up with his friends first. He had called me earlier in the day and made sure I was still able to go, which I was. So I went and the whole time he was pretty much right next to me. Making sure I was okay, and sitting close enough to where our legs were touching. Then on the way home he kept asking and making sure that I had fun. Which I did. Sorry but I have a couple of questions. 1) Do guys really hate to talk on the phone, and if so is our 2-3 hour conversations a sign he likes me? 2) I want to talk to him and tell him how I feel but I’m not sure how to go about it without ruining our friendship. How do I go about doing this? And 3) What would you do if you were in my position?
I would like to end this though by saying that I have no intentions of doing anything with this man unless he is separated from his fiancé.
Thank You!

okay well..

1. it kinda depends on the guy. most of the time guys only talk on the phone that long if they like you...thats how its been for me. we just learned about this in english..guys use communication to achieve goals (getting you to like him).. thats my guess. maybe you could include a little more info about what you guys talk about and stuff?

2. i wouldnt talk to him about it yet. first i would ask him why he calls you so much if he has a fiance. do it in nice, gentle way though so he doesnt get mad. maybe that will help him sort out his real feelings.

3. see number 2 :] and then if he likes you..go for it! but MAKE SURE he already broke things off with his fiance.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks...I will add in what we talk about...and if youd like you can come back again.....Thanks Again
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