Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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Hi,
The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.
So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.
The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.
Thanks (link)
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this is completely my opinion but i think that the key to a sexy or physically attractive guy is a good pair of jeans. slightly tight around the butt but loose around the legs. sooo sexy. guys may think that girls dont look at their butts but guess what, we do. ok next thing is a slightly tight shirt. not gay tight like where you can practically see the veins through the shirt but just tight enough so you can see a guy's peck muscles. with girls/women, we like to see what you guys have without actually seeing it. like teasing us (tight jeans, shirt). understand? guys (from my opinion and point of view) are like "if you've got it then show it" so girls go out exposing absolutely everything. but no men in short shorts is not a turn on...at all. OH MAJOR THING, the cologne!! if you have a female friend then have her pick out cologne with you. i swear even ugly men can seem extremely attractive if a girl gets a wiff of some good cologne.
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Thanks, I kind of suggested looking for cologne to one of my female friends once, but she thought I was joking!
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