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My name is Elly and I am 18 years old. I live in Michigan and I graduated High School in '07. I'm currently attending a great college, but I'm home for the summer. It's too nice outside to sit on the computer all day, so I might not be as active on here as I would like.

I guess a good way to describe me is experienced. I've discovered a lot about life and I can't wait to discover more... while having fun at the same time of course! ...BUT, like everyone, I have experienced things in life that I rather wish I hadn't. And I also feel that those bad experiences qualify me to help others with this column.

I have been in a serious relationship for over two and a half years now. I personally know that love is a difficult thing to nurture. It takes a lot of work. Life is NOT a fairytale where two people can simply love each other and everything will just fall into place. It doesn't work like that in the real world.

People on Advicenators are starting to disappoint me. Everyone says "ooh I want to help! I've experienced EVERYTHING!" Yet, I can't tell you how many questions I see with answers like "you could have googled that" or "we're not going to do your homework" or "I'm so sick of 'wow does he like me?!' questions." I used to sort of be like that, but now I realize how hypocritical that is. If I know the answer to a question, I will answer to the best of my ability without making you feel stupid for asking it in the first place. Advicenators is going to turn into a pretty nasty place if people just keep brushing off questions like that.

Rate or don't rate. I really don't care. But don't give me a 1 just because I tell you something you don't want to hear. Go to your mom for advice if you want sugarcoated answers.

I can give excellent advice on:
relationships/sex
friendship
family issues
anything about animals (i worked at a vet for several years)
college

advice

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a month and we've been sexually active for 7 months i think.. anyways we were casually having sex the other day and the condom broke.. it was the second condom but he ejaculated in the first one not the second but there was still some on his shaft he thinks.. anyways i took plan b(the morning/day after pill) and i was just wonder what experience you guys have had with it.. does it work well? and do you think i could be pregnant? all i've heard is that the m.a.p. works realllllly well! but i want to know your stories!

As far as I know, as long as you take it within 48 hours of unprotected sex, the morning after pill should work just fine. I've taken it before and I didn't have any side effects either; however, I was also on birth control during the time that I took the m.a.p. (I was quite paranoid lol).

I really don't think you are pregnant, but it wouldn't hurt to take a pregnancy test if your period turns out being late. Keep in mind if you're really stressed out about this, it could delay your period, so try not to worry about it too much.

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(Rating: 5) i'm not really stressed.. sad to say it but i wasn't even really freaking out when i found out it broke but i'm just wondering about it all hahah thanks for your advice!
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