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Q: I don't know if this is a question, but just let me tell you the story first.

When I was 12-13 (I'm 14 now) I got a whole bunch of compliments about being so pretty, and I loved that, it made me so happy. (not trying to sound concieded(sp?) I was just happy, cause I never felt pretty at all.

I mean me and my mom was in the car and we were at a stoplight, and this random maybe around 30 yr old guy rolled down his window and said "is that your daughter?" and my mom said "yes?" and he said "she's very gorgeous." and my mom said thankyou. that made me so happy! and I mean I always got stares from older men not young ones. maybe a few but it was always older ones. and no I didn't like that at all, I mean, I felt pretty, but not enough. I wanted the young ones to look at me, not the old ones. Now, I feel like I'm ugly or something. I don't get compliments anymore, but alot of OLDER men stare, not young ones. I feel ugly and I just wish I could get all the compliments like I use too, i mean I get a few but I feel ugly. like I've gotten fatter or something.

Should I change myself up a bit?I want to but I don't know what I could do.
help me please.
If people you dont know tell you you're gorgeous, you probably are pretty lol =) Maybe you should get your nails done; by different clothes that maybe are more you. You could also get your hair done and you should try different things with it. You know scrunching, straighting exc. Try focusing on your good parts other then things you dont like about yourself. Well good luck =)

thanks a bunch:D

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