Member Since: October 21, 2007
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Last Update: October 21, 2007
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I got sexually used by a boy I believed I loved. And I am so upset! I'm freaking outraged. I'm a great girl, ok? I loved him with all of me, and would have done anything. I was so close to giving up my education for this guy who wasn't even willing to wait 24 hours for me to make up my mind on wether or not I wanted to have sex with him. And stupid me ended up doing it too! I AM A GOOD GIRL. I'm kind and compassionate and I try my very hardest to be good to people, to talk to the lonely, support the struggling, and feed the hungry. I'm not a saint.. but I'm not a bad person, ok? Why the hell couldn't he like me for me??
I can't breathe. It hurts so much. I alternate between crying and yelling at my reflection in the mirror.
I need an honest, brutal answer here - why won't guys just fall for girls? Why can't you just love us if we truly deserve it?
Despite what all of you may think now, the problem here is not me. I AM NOT THE PROBLEM. It has nothing to do with my unrealistic expectations on love, or age, or experience, or my choice of boys, or ANYTHING.
The problem here is boys, all of them. And I demand a freaking answer. PLEASE explain why we go through this, why boys cant just want us the same way we want them. Why we fall in love with the person while they fall in love iwth the body.
I'm so angry and so sick of being angry. And I'm hurt. Every second of every day I'm hurt, and I believe I deserve an answer to why I have to feel this. Someone out there should be able to explain WHY I have to feel this just because the male species are obssessed with sex. Its unfair.
And you know what else? Tell me how you can NOT love someone who loves you? If you find a girl who is willing to take a bullet for you, follow you anywhere you go, if you find a real keeper who CARES so much, how can you not care back? Cause personally, I have a real hard time not liking people who sacrafice things for me, people who call to make sure I'm doing fine when I'm sick, people who spend their nights praying for me, and mornings thinking about me.. How can you not love someone who loved you first? Who treated you right, and deserved you.
My main question, because I know I had many and they're hard to keep track of, is: How can you hurt someone, not care for someone, who loves you? Is that really something that is posible to do for someone with a heart? (link)
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well, i think you might just be chasing a pipe dream. clearly this was not the guy for you. one thing i have come to learn about guys is that they dont dig the whole puppy dog thing. you dont need to follow a guy around. make him follow you. dont do the chasing anymore. move on and learn from this because if you dont i promise it WILL happen again.
i mean, yeah, you thought you were in love and you would do anything for him but, were you in love with him or just the idea of him? the idea that he could be the one?
now i am going to actually answer your final question: yes, people with hearts hurt people. you cannot be in a one sided relationship. no matter what. it just does not work. feelings will be hurt if that's the case and it sucks that you were the one that got the boot. i say move on and try to get over the whole situation. good luck.
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It might just kill me, but I know you're right - I'll have to try to move on.
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