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Okay, this is rather long, I'm sorry.
I'm currently dating this guy, we've been together for about a little more than half a year, maybe about two months more. But recently, his ex came back into the city. They were together, two years ago but then they broke up and she left for Penn, (or at least this is what his friend told me) But anyways, it has been really awkward knowing that she is in our same school and she is his ex. I guess everything would be okay- I could live with it if she didn't happen to be living with him as well. Because her parents and his parents are very close friends and since they just moved back and they didn't seem to find a house to settle down in, they are living in my boyfriends house...which is extremely awkward because when I go over to his house, I see her and it just, I guess annoys me or makes me jealous to see her? Since she apparently spends a lot more time with him than I do. But that isn't the biggest problem, it is the fact that she confronted to me and said that she stilled liked my boyfriend and she had decided to try and win him back. And I don't know- she seems to have the upper side since she is pretty, intelligent and everything and I'm really nervous right now. I have no idea what to do. I told my friends and they tell me that everything is going to be alright and that I should have trust in him, I do but it isn't like it won't be possible- they're living together! So, really, can I have some advice? I'm really confused, worried and nervous right now. I really don't want to lose him. Thank you so much. (link)
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I know that saying "just be confident!" is, although truthful, a hard thing to listen to.
Really, I'd just inform your boyfriend that his ex told you that she's going to try to win him back, and that you're nervous over it. Then at least he knows that it'll never be a natural connection with his ex, it's that she's made it her objective TO get him back.
Hope I helped, and good luck!
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Thank you so much, I did talk to him about everything and how I am kind of uneasy with him living with his ex because she wants them to get back together and everything. He said he'll sort things out and for me not to be worried. I'm so happy, thank you for your advice, I really appreciated it, thank you so much.
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