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My name is Elly and I am 18 years old. I live in Michigan and I graduated High School in '07. I'm currently attending a great college, but I'm home for the summer. It's too nice outside to sit on the computer all day, so I might not be as active on here as I would like.

I guess a good way to describe me is experienced. I've discovered a lot about life and I can't wait to discover more... while having fun at the same time of course! ...BUT, like everyone, I have experienced things in life that I rather wish I hadn't. And I also feel that those bad experiences qualify me to help others with this column.

I have been in a serious relationship for over two and a half years now. I personally know that love is a difficult thing to nurture. It takes a lot of work. Life is NOT a fairytale where two people can simply love each other and everything will just fall into place. It doesn't work like that in the real world.

People on Advicenators are starting to disappoint me. Everyone says "ooh I want to help! I've experienced EVERYTHING!" Yet, I can't tell you how many questions I see with answers like "you could have googled that" or "we're not going to do your homework" or "I'm so sick of 'wow does he like me?!' questions." I used to sort of be like that, but now I realize how hypocritical that is. If I know the answer to a question, I will answer to the best of my ability without making you feel stupid for asking it in the first place. Advicenators is going to turn into a pretty nasty place if people just keep brushing off questions like that.

Rate or don't rate. I really don't care. But don't give me a 1 just because I tell you something you don't want to hear. Go to your mom for advice if you want sugarcoated answers.

I can give excellent advice on:
relationships/sex
friendship
family issues
anything about animals (i worked at a vet for several years)
college

advice

Somebody left a voicemail on my cell singing "Somewhere over the rainbow" just those words, not the whole song. I have a suspicion its my crush. We don't talk much but I guess we're friends. I was just wondering if he chose that song on purpose because it had a symbolic meaning. What do you think?

F/16

PS: I could be wrong but I think he was the only one there, like he called by himself. There were no voices in the background, no laughing, just horrible singing ;)

Should I call him back? What do I say? The number was blocked by the way.

I would call him back, with your number blocked, and say "bluebirds fly" (i think those are the next lyrics... you may want to check on that) and hang up. Just to see what he does. If it really is him, he'll know it's you and he'll flirt back OR he'll be completely confused, but its okay because he won't know it's your number! It's worth a try!

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(Rating: 5) I unfortunately followed the first person's advice. =(
But your's would have been a better idea. Do you think there was a symbolic meaning to the song he chose?
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