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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
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I was in a serious relationship with someone for over 2 years at least. We broke up off and on and all of the break-ups were his decision. And he keeps coming back! Each time he leaves it's for less than a month and he's back. Well, this time we went the whole summer apart and now he's back again for a friendship. I'm NOT ok with this, I got weak and started crying when he called me asking to be friends. Then, he started saying that he doesn't want to hurt me and that maybe if we manage as friends we could try again as a couple. I really cannot decide what to do.
I mean I'm in love with him, so obviously I want to be with him. But, I really don't like being his friend. We've been talking every night for 3 days and I'm just wishing it was more all of the time because he's very show offish and kind of a jerk as my friend. But, he's the best and sweetest guy as my boyfriend. The reason he broke it off so many times is because of fighting and fearing we won't make it.
Important Things:
-We are an INTERNET RELATIONSHIP
-We've met once and couldn't be happier with what we saw
-We are both 17 if this helps
And, you can guarantee a rating if you give me your honest opinion. I've just been crying for days and I could use some help:( (link)
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Just because you are an internet relationship doesn't mean it can't work out,I think you will need some time apart from him before deciding whether you will want to be friends with him or not right now you're very hurt,need some space to get things sorted out,figure out where you want things to lead to he has to be willing to respect your decision if he really likes you that much.
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Rating: 5
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I really thank you for your advice and agreeing with the fact that internet relationships work because I usually get the opposite. But, you're right about him needing to respect my decision. Thanks:)
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