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Q: 16/f
i'm gonna start off by saying i'm NOT a whore
me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 9 months and he's fingered me once and we makeout alot thats about it ;; i kinda would like some more "exitement" and i give him handjobs all the time and was even thinking of giving him head (even tho i have NOO IDEA WHAT TO DO!) and maybe even sex! i've given him alot of time and i dont wanna like push him but do you think i should say something to him.. if so what?

btw he's one year younger then me
do you think that has much of an affect on it?
well, considering he's a teenage boy, he probably has the same thing on his mind that you do. there's two ways you can get at this.

the first thing you can do is just go for it. just give him a blow job or something a couple of times, and if you want, hand him a condom. that way, he know's what you want. to give a blow job, you basically just suck on his thing and rub your tounge on it.

it sounds kinda like you're unsure of yourself. like maybe, you don't want to do this ? or you still feel uncomfortable with the process ? well.
the second way you can try this is by trying to talk to him. let him know you want some more excitement, and figure out if he's ready or not. at the same time, you'll probably figure out whether or not YOU are ready. just ask if he wants to take the relationship up a level, and ask if he's ready to go all the way. if not, don't push it. who knows, the conversation might even make you rethink that you really want.

good luck.

thankks =]

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