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My friend was asking my crush whether he had a love life. He said no. Then she started asking him what he thought of all these girls that were on our swim team.. including me. This is what he said: "She's pretty but I don't know."
Does that mean he likes me? He used to say that he likes me as a friend.
Should I get my hopes up?
Honestly, at this point, I'd have to say No. Sorry, if he thinks you're pretty, and that's it, that's not exactly what you should go on before considering having a relationship with him. But, honestly I doubt he'd openly admit to your friend that he likes you because for one, he's a guy, talking to a GIRL. Guys usually share crushes only if they are REALLY good friends. Secondly, he might have known that you are friends with her. That aside, you should talk to him a little more, see what he's like, and in two weeks (at least) if you still like him and you feel that he likes you, then you should consider a relationship status with him. Can you picture yourself as his girlfriend? (Not not, after a few weeks of really getting to know him and him positively reacting to this) Also, try to find out if you get along, and find out if his personality is the type you look for in a guy. Were you the only girl that he seemed interested in? If so, or if not, either way, do NOT flirt over the top or make it obvious. But from what I can tell, in a few weeks, if you spend a lot of time with him, i have a feeling that he might like you back. But, then, the question will be, do you still like him??
Well, the best of luck to you!!
If you ever need any more advice, I'm always here.
Sincerely,
-jimmy.
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First of all, I've known him for five years, and liked him for five. We are two different people, but there's just similarities between us that will really make a relationship work well for the two of us. But thanks for answering =)
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